{"id":5198,"date":"2018-08-05T15:41:22","date_gmt":"2018-08-05T08:41:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/irispreschool.com.vn\/?p=5198"},"modified":"2018-08-05T15:41:22","modified_gmt":"2018-08-05T08:41:22","slug":"how-can-we-teach-children-the-proper-way-to-apologize","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/irispreschool.com.vn\/vi\/lam-the-nao-chung-ta-co-the-day-tre-em-cach-xin-loi-dung-dan\/","title":{"rendered":"Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i "Con xin l\u1ed7i" m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt. L\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb em c\u00e1ch xin l\u1ed7i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Khi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai, cha m\u1eb9 mong \u0111\u1ee3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i.
\nTr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i "Con xin l\u1ed7i" b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngay sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ch\u00fang.
\nH\u01a1n n\u1eefa, trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, h\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u gi\u1ed1ng nhau.
\n\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f4i khi nghi ng\u1edd li\u1ec7u con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 xin l\u1ed7i hay ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.<\/h3>\n

V\u1eady, l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i khi l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai?<\/p>\n

Khi n\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em n\u00f3i "Con xin l\u1ed7i" m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh?<\/h4>\n
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Tr\u1ebb em xin l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u0169.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ngay khi b\u1ecb m\u1eafng, tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng xin l\u1ed7i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201cCon xin l\u1ed7i\u201d. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.
\nTheo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i mi\u1ec7ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.
\nTrong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang l\u00e0m l\u00e0 sai.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em xin l\u1ed7i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, tr\u1ebb em xin l\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb m\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb m\u1eafng.
\n\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb la m\u1eafng.<\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i xin l\u1ed7i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdc suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c n\u1ecbnh cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i "Con xin l\u1ed7i".
\nM\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh.
\nTrong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u1ebb em lu\u00f4n t\u1ecf ra nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng khi b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 la m\u1eafng, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb la m\u1eafng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ebb em b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 "Con xin l\u1ed7i \u0111i", ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng.
\nKhi cha m\u1eb9 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 sai.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady, l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai<\/h4>\n
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H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe tr\u1ebb em<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 "\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t" "Con xin l\u1ed7i \u0111i", tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.
\nV\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, t\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m v\u1eady.
\nKhi tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u, do \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai.
\nKhi cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb lo\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh.
\nV\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 \u201cKhi con \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eb9, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111au l\u1eafm\u201d. \u201cKhi con g\u1ecdi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ed1c, m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n\u201d.
\nB\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c khi\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 bu\u1ed3n, do \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.
\n\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em v\u00ec sao h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 sai h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 la m\u1eafng nh\u01b0 "\u0110\u00e1nh nhau l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t!" "Con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ngu ng\u1ed1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c".<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i, tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.
\nCha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1eafng nghe tr\u1ebb. N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n: Maiko Sato \u2013 World Mommy<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n

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